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Sushi & The Toddler

8 Jan

Before you say anything, yes I live in Los Angeles. Yes, I work in Entertainment. And yes…my two year old eats Sushi & Japanese food! I get the strange looks and comments quite often, and to be honest I could care less! I am raising a picky toddler and if he wants seaweed, eggplant with Miso & tempura fried veggies then so be it!! At this point, I take what I can get! LOL! The great thing I think is that he does like something other than chicken nuggets & “pinch pies” (french fries)! And though it goes against what most American Mommies and Daddies would do, I have let my son try a little raw fish. VERY VERY little yellowtail carpaccio. He loves it! I figure the acid from the lemon and olive oil help with the killing of any left over bacteria. Now I wouldn’t allow my son to eat raw fish from a place that has their sushi on slashed prices, but only from this place I’ve been going to for years where I know the fish is amazingly fresh!

So last night along with my mother and our good friend, Joy, we feasted at my favorite little spot! Jax dressed in his lab coat from his doctor’s costume, Brobee crocheted hat & Brobee backpack was able to sit at the sushi bar for the first time! He really thought he had hit the jackpot! He was inches from the food and there was a person standing there the whole time preparing more of it and taking orders! On top of all that, he was closer to the door and was able to greet each and every person who entered and exited with “Merry MisMus! Happy New Lear! Happy Hol-day! PEACE!”. He was also able to place his orders with the sushi chefs, talk with them about Yo Gabba Gabba, Dr. Seuss, his bike, being a doctor for the day and the republican debates that were taking place last night….or whatever it is that 2 year olds talk about! We dined among other families, couples, celebrities, teens and hipsters with the comfort and ease of being at home with old friends. In fact Jax was so comfortable that he not only proclaimed TWICE to me that he had to go potty, but then announced each time to the small restaurant that he went potty as he exited the bathroom. And to his surprise and pleasure he was met with a few congratulations from patrons! Yes, I know. One thing you have to understand about my son, he befriends just about anyone wherever he goes and will soon become the ambassador of that place. Whenever we enter a place he greets everyone he comes in contact with, and as they exit he sends them off with a “Buh Bye. See Soon!!! Lay-ler!”. And when he leaves he makes sure that everyone gets a proper goodbye, perhaps a handshake or two, certainly a wave! Sometimes I feel like I’m with President Clinton!

I probably shouldn’t do this because then I may never be able to get a seat in this Sherman Oaks sushi jewel that is about as big as my living room, but the food is so great I just have to share it! We go to Iwata on Ventura & Van Nuys Blvd in Sherman Oaks. It’s really small and quaint, the owner is the head sushi chef and the food is fresh and yummified! It’s family friendly and adult friendly all at the same time! I’ve taken my son & nieces to have dinner, had business lunch meetings here and dinner dates. The prices are pretty reasonable for the food and service you receive. Jax usually gets the chicken & tempura combination that comes with miso soup, rice, teriyaki chicken, tempura, and salad. If I am able to get my chopsticks in there without getting assaulted by his fast-moving fork, we share it! LOL! He also loves the Eggplant with Miso, cucumber roll, pickled ginger, cucumber & seaweed sunomono salad, california rolls and the little bean sprouts they bring out. He attempts to use the kiddie chopsticks they give him, but soon he gives that up for a fork and finger instant gratification!

Mommy’s favorites include the yellow tail collar, spicy shrimp on rice cake, salmon sushi, Huba Huba Roll w/spicy shrimp inside (instead of spicy tuna. It’s great with spicy tuna, but I LOVE his spicy shrimp), seared albacore with crispy onions, yellow tail carpaccio, tuna roll, halibut sushi, blue crab roll in rice paper, vegetable tempura, eggplant with miso, Shishito Peppers, chicken teriyaki, lobster roll, spicy tuna nachos, cucumber & seaweed sunomono salad. This place is sooo much more than a rainbow or california roll!!

Now not to say that this is the BEST sushi in the valley, but once you try this place it will be very hard to eat anywhere else. Personally, I love Katsuya, but Katsuya isn’t so friendly on my mommy budget, this place is as good and easier on the wallet This place has been my staple for years now and it’s never disappointed! I mean if you can find a place that your child gets excited about visiting when he sees it and it doesn’t have a big golden arch on top of it, you gotta shout it out!! And hey, if it’s good for the Jaxomous and Miley Cyrus, then it’s gotta be good!! LOL!

IWATA ON YELP!

IWATA SUSHI SHERMAN OAKS, CA

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It’s A Great Life…A really great great LIFE!

7 Jan

I woke up this morning and the first thing that ran through my mind was that very first moment I met Jax’s eyes! Those sweet sweet soft curious gray eyes looked at me and my life was never the same. At that moment I realized that I had been living my whole life to lead up to that moment! I had been waiting my whole life to be a mother! He had been waiting for me to be ready and though I spent my whole pregnancy doubting if I was really ready to be everything he needed, I knew at that very moment that I was ready!

This morning Jax put on his doctor costume, his Brobee backpack, his green iPod, and jumped on his bike ready to tackle the day. The first song to play on my iPhone was Good Life by OneRepublic. This single mommy had a major revelation. There has been a lot of craziness and heartbreak in the past year, but this life, this life right here with the costumes, yo gabba gabba, tantrums, countless hugs & kisses, dancey dance filled evenings, and I love you’s said with a lisp is a freakin’ GOOD LIFE!

Sometimes there’s airplanes I can’ t jump out 
Sometimes there’s bullshit that don’t work now 
We are god of stories but please tell me
What there is to complain about

That moment Jaxon came into this world, I had all kinds of plans. I had a partner, love, a home and now a family of my own and this is how it would remain until my death. Now I have love and I still have my family…just back on the journey for that life partner. That moment he said he couldn’t do it anymore and we were no longer home, I truly thought I wouldn’t make it. I didn’t know what was good, what was up or down, what was bad and what was real. I had lost myself so much and poured my soul into my family and household and a future that just wasn’t meant for me. Life was awful! It’s taken some time and lot of soul searching to realize that there really isn’t anything to complain about. Sometimes shit just happens and you just have to roll with it! Everything happens for a reason and count those blessings as they are! I look back on those first few months of this transition and wonder why so much sadness? There wasn’t failure really. I look at those gray eyes turned brown now and I can’t help but be happy like a crazy fool! I remember thinking, my family was so beautiful! But I realize my family is still so beautiful, Jaxon will just have more people in his family to love him when Steven and I find those true life partners.

My son wakes up every morning with a smile on his face grinning through his pacifier and he lets out a “good morning, mama!” through it. Every morning! And it’s been that way since he first learned how to smile! What is there to complain about? This could really be a good good life! My ex changed his first diaper, followed him into the nursery and spent two years taking Saturday mornings so I could sleep in after being on morning duty call everyday during the week. No he isn’t here anymore every saturday, but he’s still here! this is just a new way of life. What is there to complain about? This is good good life.

When you’re happy like a fool 
Let it take you over 
When everything is out 
You gotta take it in

Neither one of us planned to fall out of love. Neither one of us planned to not be spending a 50th wedding anniversary together. Okay, well things happen. So where do we go now? What do I do now? I live! I woke up this morning that through all the bullshit, there is still an ounce of joy! I am hanging onto that and letting that guide me. I spent so many months wondering where I went wrong and how to fix me! Wondering how it happened and when it happened! Feeling hopeless and confused. Not realizing that I was missing all the blessings passing me by. I look back on the last few years and only see the blessings and only see the happiness.

Hopelessly 
I feel like there might be something that I’ll miss 
Hopelessly 
I feel like the window closes oh so quick 
Hopelessly 
I’m taking a mental picture of you now 
‘Cuz hopelessly 
The hope is we have so much to feel good about

I look at those brown eyes looking up at me and I realize that where I am now is just as amazing as where I was October 21, 2009 at 6:05 pm. Those brown eyes are waiting for me to show him how great this life is GONNA be! It’s time to take that deep deep breath, reflect, grab his chubby little hand and race toward hope! Grab you’re Brobee backpack kid, it’s time to set off on our new adventure! Together we’ll show each other just how AMAZING this life is gonna really be!

The Good Life

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